Got problems, need encouraging, and I feel stupid.

[Am_I_Temperance?]

So I feel stupid beacause well I do stuff because I want to fit in. I'm a christian so its hard to fit in at school and go what God says. I need help and encouraging to help me make desicisions that will help me not fit in at school and fit in at church where I know people will care and love for me.

[jj]

hello Am_I_Temperance?

theres nothing wrong with wanting to do things that help you fit in. thats surely what we all want to do. to fit in. but if it is making you unhappy to conform to things you dislike then thats no good! you should do things that you like, that make you happy. like being a christian and being proud of it. theres no point in being a certain way if you dont really think/believe that. "wanting to be somebody else is a waste of who you are" that may sound abit blunt but the message is there...you are you, and you are unique... you are your own person.. so be you! no-one can be you better than you can be you. so do your thing and own it!
also if you are concerned about people caring and loving and accepting you at school /at church... well you will want them to accept and love the person that you are.. not someone else that you are trying to be. you'll be alot happier once you accept who you are and love yourself just for who you are. then you will find people that care and love you for who you are too.

jj