Thanks for the advise and suggestions for my previous post.Those really help me.
This time i want to share experience which i faced in my workplace.He was from my hometown and now we are working at same company but different department.Last time also we were working toghter at same company at our hometown.
Last year he came to me and asked some money and said because his girlfriend was coming to this country and he needed to take care her and help her find the job,i lend it to him and i said return this money to me if you are ok to return.He did return to me.He did this borrow money thing twice to me,i helped him anyway and i felt that i di that because he is my friend and i want to help whatever i can.
Time passing by and recently i was ill and went to clinic and happened to claim medical bill to my company.When i recovered and started to work in second shift so impossible to go to company doctor and claim that medical bill so i asked for his help as he was working morning shift.I just only asked that "Please just help me to pass this claim form to company doctor",he just said to me that "I can not do that as if i did people would laughing to me".I was confuse and don't understand him at all.I feel no good and now i don't want to deal with him anymore.
Am i doing the right thing? What do you think this situation and what shall i do? Am i thinking the right thing? Please share your experience and advise that would help me a lot.
Thanks
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