Depression Understood Forums

Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 11:24 am

Hey Guys,
Well today like this week has been complete & utter crap
I've been unable to go out twice this wk when expecting too, been charged £30 for being less that £1 overdrawn on my bank account, internet keeps cutting out, we need a new TV aerial & can't afford one so can't watch much TV unless we've got good weather, etc, etc, etc

I won't bore you with all the details but i just want to disappear for good

Bri x

Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 11:54 am

((((((((((((((((((((((Ramishka)))))))))))))))))))))

Sending you tons of hugs and smiles, with the sunshine.

Please know I am here for you, got good shoulders and lots of support. I for one, do NOT want you disappearing hon. Stay with us, talk with us. It does help.

(((((((((((((((((((((((Ramishka)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Love to you hon

Warmie

Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 12:34 pm

Thanks Warmy,
Your name already seems to match your personality I will come back & hopefully on a brighter day share in the fun with you all too, I am very greatful to you for making me feel so at home here already

All my love & hugs Bri xxx

Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 11:28 pm

Oh ((((Ramishka))),

God what a week you've had.

As you said elsewhere, I think too that you've got to take one problem at a time... else it's "total overwhelm time" (ouch).

You will, I know, little by little and step by step get one problem solved after another. It's just one long old slog I know, but I'm sure there will be light at the end of the tunnel soon.

Emm, also think you should change bank... £30 for being less than £1 over drawn - that's so unfair. Then again, just what you need now is more paperwork to sort out with your bank.

I don't think I'm helping here! lol

But, rest assured all will be resolved in the end... I hope it's very soon for you Ramishka.

Hope to talk to you soon,

Stephen.

Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:59 am

(((((((Ramishka)))))))

hi .. don't think we've met before so "hi there"

What a week you've had huh? ... keep that chin up and just think that it can only get better.

Banks suck with their charges huh? some are sooooo ridiculous like what they charged you for the overdraft! That's just unbelievable and blah!

Maybe you can try picking up a good book to pass the time quietly to relax? Sometimes that helps.

I hope you have a good day today.

xxx Lisa xxx

Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 7:25 am

Hey there Stephen, Lisa,
Please feel free to call me Bri...... everyone else does
I so hope that things start to get better, i said to Carl last night it's just one thing after another all the friggin time

I guess at times we all just need a break, I've reached that time yet again I'll be keeping busy just to try keep my mind off things (it helps, but never stops it completely, but it's better than sitting here all day depressed thinking about it,) if i do that i just get alot worse it's just hard to keep finding things to keep busy with as i see all the mess & what needs doing & just can't always find the motivation to do it

Now i'm just praying for some luck to come heading our way

Anyway, thanks guys for being here & being so kind It's good to be here & hope to see you on the other forum too

Stephen ~ deffo looking forward to nattering with you although often nattered with you on forums never actually spoken with you, so if i can get in the chat room one day i'll look out for you

Lisa ~ I'll try find something to in my spare time hun, it does relax me when i can concentrate on it, too much sometimes as it makes me all

All my love & hugs guys Bri xxx

Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 12:57 pm

((((((((((((Bri)))))))))))))))))))))

You are family now, what families do. You are a blessed addition, did you know that?

Here for you anytime and always.

Love to you

Warmie

Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 3:20 pm

Thankyou hun,
That's very kind of you I feel very at home here & am pleased to be here with you all & extending my friends/family further

All my love & hugs Bri xxx

Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 4:32 pm

Hi Bri,

I hope you're finding lots of things to keep your mind off of things (I think that just about makes sense).

Well, you've had all the bad luck so now by the law of averages the good will follow.

Yep, would be good to talk sometime soon Smile

Hope you have a good weekend... take it easy!

Stephen.

Posted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 4:34 am

Hey Stephen,
Thanks for that We have Carl's youngest son this weekend I won't be able to get near the pc much though, that's the only down side You'd hardly know he's here as he gets so engrossed in the monitor

Gotta go shopping today as well

Will chat soon one day soon i'm sure

All my love & hugs Bri xxx

PS ~ Hope you have a grt wk end too, same goes to everyone

Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2006 5:13 pm

Hi Ramishka!

How was your weekend, how did it go with Carl's son?

- Did he hog the computer as you thought? lol

And now it's the start of yet another week... where does all the time go?!

Talk to you soon and hope you're doing well (to everyone too),

Stephen.

Posted: Tue Mar 07, 2006 7:44 am

Hey Stephen,
Thanks for asking, the weekend was ok ~ ish
Carl's son hogged the pc from the second he got in the door to the second he left thankfully his other son was ill or they would've fighting over who was going to use it I barely touched the pc all wk end, think i replied to one PM

I went & saw my Nan yesterday (with my dad) she was really ill at the end of last yr/beg of this yr but she seems to be so much better now, although her memory still really worries me alot but it was sooooooo lovely to see her should be going again next monday as well (all being well)

Got a major depression on atm, it's on & off all the time, but mainly on & I just can't shake it I know this has been coming for a long while though, but i'm trying my best to stay busy & put my mind somewhere else /hold my emotions back, not too easy atm though, just feel so tearful & lacking in enthusiasm, energy, care, i just wonna curl up in bed all day & sleep/cry

Anyway, how did your wk end go, hope it was ok & you are ok at the present time

All my love & hugs Bri xxx

Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 9:20 am

((((((((((((((((((((((((Bri)))))))))))))))))))))

My weekend was just that a weekend. Nothing exciting, long and well the kind you sleep through if you get the chance.

Seems you had a stressful one, but there are hopes for the one coming up right?

Hope your week has been good and you are getting lots of things done.

Just wanted to let you know that you are thought of and good wishes from me to you.

Love to you

Warmie

Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 7:50 pm

Hi Bri -

Sorry to hear about your Nan being ill, least she's a lot better now

So the weekend is upon us again, any big plans? (None here!)

Can relate to your depression... going through a "phase" (a very low one) too at the moment. My average is sad it seemsl, now I'm at a point 100c below that. Moan moan.

Hope to talk to you soon.

Hi Warmsoul -

Think my weekend to come will match the one you had last week. Hope this new one for you is better and more "exciting".

Sorry, this post has turned into my pity-party.

Posted: Fri Mar 10, 2006 2:40 pm

(((((((((((((((((Stephen)))))))))))))))

You are able express your thought and feelings, so why be sorry.

Don't even want to think of this week end. Just want it over.....

Good luck with your week end and hope it is productive for you.

Warmie