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Hello my name is tart I am really upset being judged by others in some site be cause if my "powerful depresstion" it so strong that people called me" troll " "little kid"and mainly a" problem" I got banned,yelled at, judged, called names and complanedover and over...it like a never ending cycle each site...somebody can you please give me advive about this please!

HI Tart and welcome to the forums. I am sorry that your depression causes you so much difficulty with communication in public forums. Perception is often skewed in situations like this and I wonder if people were as harsh as you say. Judgment and criticism is unfair and very unkind but all persons regardless of situation have to maintain a certain code of conduct in public situations. I hope you find the opportunity to share you feelings here and get the type of support and response you are looking for. ((Tart)) best of luck to you and take care.

It sounds like you’re going through a tough time, and it’s completely understandable to feel upset when others judge you. Remember, your feelings are valid, and you’re not alone in this.
Here are a few pieces of advice that might help:
Reach Out for Support: Talk to someone you trust about how you’re feeling. Sometimes just sharing your thoughts can lighten the burden.
Take Breaks from Online Spaces: If certain sites are causing you distress, it might be helpful to take a break from them. Focus on places where you feel safe and accepted.
Engage in Positive Activities: Find hobbies or activities that bring you joy and help distract you from negative thoughts. Whether it’s art, music, or spending time in nature, doing what you love can be therapeutic.
Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. It’s okay to feel down sometimes, and it doesn’t define who you are.
Consider Professional Help: If your feelings of depression are overwhelming, talking to a mental health professional can be very beneficial.
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I read your post and it’s clear to me that you’ve gotten caught in a rather exhausting cycle: you go online seeking a place to talk, but instead encounter negative reactions that only leave you feeling more stressed. This is something many people have experienced; it’s not an uncommon occurrence. stickman hook
The most important thing is not to let the labels others attach to you—such as "troll," "childish," or "problematic"—redefine your sense of self. On forums or other websites, people sometimes react very quickly and without much sensitivity; their reactions don't necessarily reflect who you truly are as a person.
If these online spaces are making you feel worse, you really should consider cutting back on the time you spend there, or perhaps stepping away for a while. Instead, seek out a few "safer" spaces—or at the very least, places where you feel respected when you speak.
Furthermore, if your feelings of "depression" seem to be worsening over time, talking to a mental health professional would be far more helpful than trying to shoulder the burden all by yourself. It’s not because you are "broken" or "have a problem," but simply because you don't have to carry this entire weight alone.
I hope you find a place where you can speak more freely and comfortably, without feeling constantly judged.