Desperate for advice

[Honda29x]

My girlfriend of 3 years has bpd.2 days ago i kinda stood up for myself and said i wasnt going to let her yell at me anymore.She didnt like that and hung up.i tried calling her back multiple times to no avail.She then texted me and said we dont love each other anymore which really upset me and then said we should find other people so i get more upset and then she jumps on me about talking to someone else about my mental health so i break my phone and have i a bad night.Self-harmed pretty bad (regret it now) and havent really slept since.Fast forward 2 days and she gets in contact with me and shes drunk and telling me i abandoned her when thats far from the truth.I was having my own struggles and i broke my phone.I’m not sure whats happening now.Last i was on the phone with her,the cops had been called.I asked if she stopped taking her meds and she said yes.Im kind of in shock right now because i’ve bent over backwards for her at the expense of my own mental health.Any advice from anyone with bpd or if youve been in a relationship with someone with bpd.

[lesservacant]

My girlfriend of 3 years has bpd.2 days ago i kinda stood up for myself and said i wasnt going to let her yell at me anymore.She didnt like that and hung up.i tried calling her back multiple times to no avail.She then texted me and said we dont love each other anymore which really upset me and then said we should find other people so i get more upset and then she jumps on me about talking to someone else about my mental health so i break my phone and have i a bad night. foodleCut up both arms pretty good(regret it now) and havent really slept since.Fast forward 2 days and she gets in contact with me and shes drunk and telling me i abandoned her when thats far from the truth.I was having my own struggles and i broke my phone.I’m not sure whats happening now.Last i was on the phone with her,the cops had been called.I asked if she stopped taking her meds and she said yes.Im kind of in shock right now because i’ve bent over backwards for her at the expense of my own mental health.Any advice from anyone with bpd or if youve been in a relationship with someone with bpd.

Hi Honda29x,
I'm so sorry you've been through all that, no one should have to go through as much as you have. I hope youll remember to take care of yourself as well as your daughter.

[Prycejosh1987]

I honestly think you could take a step back and only reunite with her once she has gained emotional strength and controlled her personal issues. People tend to take out abuse on the people who love them the most. A friend is good because it is being there but also staying back at a distance. Pray about it.

[beratebadgers]

The diseases that are really difficult to cure can only be controlled. It needs the intervention of experts so as not to affect the patient's emotionscoreball. It is really important. It is necessary to approach and ensure emotional stability. It is necessary to practice habits to ensure the patient and those around them.

[KalebLynn]

I hope you two are strong enough to get through this. Please motivate her to overcome this difficult situation.
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