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((((((((((((((((((( Jen ))))))))))))))))))))))

We are friends, in many ways, right? I love you for you, not what you can do or be. Just you.

Life gets crazy, you have a full schedule. I simply want you to be safe. You are 'family' to me, don't you dare forget that, okay?

You are a special person, you make the difference with me, you always have.

You know how to get in touch with me, don't be afraid to do that.

Really do love and care for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No apology for things you can't control. This is life, we will see it through, together.

Jeanie

((((((((((((((( Jen ))))))))))))))))))

Something I just read, thought of you, so sharing this with you dear friend.

Here goes:

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,

To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,

Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson,

Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant

Thank you for being a part of my life,

Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Love you

Jeanie

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((((((((((((((((( jen ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

im happy to see you've opened up a bit in here. im sorry to hear about what your going through. i can understand that it is rough. i dont know your full story but please know that i am here if you ever would like to talk. if there is anything i can do please let me know. and you havent been a bad op/friend/person at all from what i can see. you are good person. your puppy loves you unconditionally and will never think anything bad of you EVER!
~peachy

(((((((((((( Jen )))))))))))))))

Didn't mean to make you cry, just want you to see you are a GOOD person, and so many care and respect you.

Jeanie

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(((((((((((((((((((( Jen ))))))))))))))

Being here for you as you are for me! See you are a really caring person, else I would have never typed that.

Love to you

Jeanie

((((((((((((((((((((((( jen ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

you are a great person and you havent seemed to change to me. well you've changed for the better. or maybe i've stop acting like a jerk.... hmmmm. i think its both :d you are a wonderful person and im happy to know you

oh and one last thing i forgot to add you shouldnt feel bad. i know you may but there doesnt seem to be a reason to feel bad about anything. life happens and we can learn to accept what we've done and learn from our mistakes

Hi Jen, Hi all!

I'm so sorry about your situation lately, Jen... but please don't feel like you're, "bad," because of anything that is going on. Stress can do strange things to people, and often cause us to do things that we thought were in the past. Please just look at your, "using," as a small fumble in an otherwise successful recovery, ok? And stay away from those, "friends!" They are not helping your recovery if they are giving you drugs.

And I've seen how helpful you have been to people around here. You are needed and your life is worth living, Jen. I know it's hard to see that sometimes (I've been there) but your life is precious and you ARE important to this world. Please focus on feeling better and falling back in love with yourself, ok? Once you do, the rest will fall into place.

Please also know that I am a anxiety victim as well... I'm doing better at the moment thanks to Paxil, but I've been where you are; in that constant state of anxiety that you feel you can't get out of. I understand, and I'm sure many people here do as well. You have a lot of friends here, Jen. And remember... everyone, and I mean EVERYONE goes through good and bad times, and it does affect our moods and the way we treat people. A real friend can see you for the wonderful person you are... even when there's a cloud above your head that causes you to act not quite like yourself. When you love someone... you LOVE all of them. The good and the not so good.

Thinking of you... (((((Jen)))))

You are not and have never been a bad friend to me. (((((((Late hugs for Jennifer)))))

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Anytime for you!

Jeanie