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Inconspicuous
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Objectively undesirable

Postby Inconspicuous » Mon Sep 29, 2014 11:48 pm

Even if I really hit it off with a girl I like, she can't choose what she's attracted to any more than I can. It's becoming unbearable.

4EverMe
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Postby 4EverMe » Tue Sep 30, 2014 7:01 am

Hi inconspicuous,
Well, you're definitely living up to your username- lol!

Will you please explain further what's bothering you?
Judging by what you wrote, it seems that you're feeling physically unattractive to women?
I'll wait for your answer.
Until then, know that the saying "Beauty/attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, " is literally true!

Inconspicuous
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Postby Inconspicuous » Tue Sep 30, 2014 12:45 pm

Exactly.
Yes, in the same way that taste in food is subjective, but I seem to be a bowl full of grubs. Only people who are starving and have no other option find me delicious.

Inconspicuous
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Postby Inconspicuous » Tue Sep 30, 2014 11:33 pm

Is there somewhere I can go where I'm not just hitting refresh all day hoping for a response?

creaker
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Postby creaker » Fri Oct 03, 2014 10:13 am

Probably the most attractive feature of a guy is "confidence" :)

At high school, one time I spoke up for something I believed in, and suddenly a girl found me attractive. Unfortunately I didn't know what to do, so I ignored her until she went away -- I don't recommend this particular tactic!

If you want more interactive answers, try the chatroom. Good luck!


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