Both Frame and 4EverMe made great points.
I never expected too much from him. When he came to me and purposely asked to be friends I trusted him with my whole heart to be just that ... a simple friend.
Someone to listen if I needed to talk. Someone that maybe wished me Happy Thanksgiving , or Merry Christmas .. or even took two minutes of his time to say ' Happy Birthday Star." I never wanted any more than that.
He's the kind of person that if he wants to talk to you he can be the nicest person in the world. But then if he doesn't he acts like you don't even exist.
I never expected " high expectations" from him. Just for him to be what he asked us to be. Friends
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Like I've said before Star; he isn't worth your time of day lovely, as you deserve to much better and it sounds to me all he cares about is himself?(sorry)? But that's how I see it anyway.
It's pretty obvious your not happy with this guy, so it sent really a good relationship to be in, you do deserve to be happy and you WILL find someone who will love you for you.
It's pretty obvious your not happy with this guy, so it sent really a good relationship to be in, you do deserve to be happy and you WILL find someone who will love you for you.
4EverMe wrote:Hi leris,
In all fairness, though, I have to add that [/b]there are times we don't know we will be burned.[/b]
A second scenario would be to know it, but allow this regardless...
There is often the third option- We're not too sure, one way or another.
Nevertheless, the end result is betrayal, pain and the like.
Is there a fourth? Yes. It is when we have lost all trust in people, to the point where we 'assume' the worst, when it is not necessarily so.
Hello 4EverMe,
That's the thing about life, you never know what will happen, that applies to almost everything. You can hope for the best but you should also be prepared for the worse or at least what could happen. Marriages can break down, you might get rejected for a job, you may not win the first prize for a competition etc. If you can't handle rejection or losing then you're going to have a very hard time because you won't always win. many things come with risks, a bit like gambling, you can win but you can also lose. If you can't afford to lose then don't gamble. Again these are choices one makes.
I feel bad for what happened to Star and I feel that it is important for him/her to look forward and not dwell in the past. I have been through what he/she has numerous times and I know it's not easy. Some people even stole money from me and disappeared. Im still friendly, i still trust people because I know not to tar everyone with the same brush. Whatever happened was with that individual and i don't project his flaws onto other people which would be very unfair. It did happen to me a few times but I did learn and i did grow and I am now immune to that crap
if someone betrayed me now.. Oh well.. Moving on swiftly. I hope Star you can move forward because there are better things to come.. Don't stay in the past and miss out on what is ahead. Keep swimming to that shore 
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