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guys, i know this may sound childish and stupid to you but i really need help on this...sigh, if you guys have read the previous posts i posted, you would know how i'm feeling right now.

my girlfriend who meant everything to me, left me because of something that happened between us and only between us. after she left me, she became close to this guy who likes her and they became really really close. sigh, the thing is, it's the guy's birthday tomorrow and i think she might start dating him on that same day. i think they might become a couple tomorrow.'

guys, i don't know why i'm doing this to myself...i really don't. why am i still stalking her every single day when she has already moved on? why am i crying in the middle of the night over somebody who now hates me and has forgotten me.

i'm scared that if she actually starts dating him and they become a couple. i might commit suicide.

Woah, woah...hey, I know it sucks in this world where everyone acts like happiness is what you need to have and you don't have anything if you don't have a romantic love life and happiness and everything...but that's not true. The point of life isn't to be happy. It's to make progress. And sometimes, yes you feel alone, yes you feel useless, and yes you feel like just giving up, but please don't lose like that. You might feel like nothing compared to her, but if you can weather through this and come out a strong person, an overcoming, then you are ten feet tall. Your spirit is winning. Don't kill yourself. That's giving up, and you can't give up. You have a purpose in life. Believe it. You do. One victory leads to another, and often victory starts at the very bottom. But it has to start somewhere. So win by not taking your life, by seeing yourself as valuable in spite of whatever she's doing, and by being optimistic about the future. Anyone can be optimistic about anything, and optimism can take you anywhere. Please reply soon. I hope you're still there.

Please don't commit suicide. Its not worth it, nor is it the solution. you want a happy life, it will be less possible if you just end it. Hang in there. We're all in this together.