I assume pretty much everybody here has at least 1 or 2 peeps (friends, family, or acquaintances) who, no matter how much you try to explain where your at, and maybe why you think you are where you are......
They just don't get it !
I mean, my boss {the big boss / owner} is a fit, good looking Italian stud of a guy, who has had 2 good looking wives, and 3 or 4 hot GF's, in the years I've known him.....
My friend / assistant manager, is one of those kids with an innocent baby face, and a medium {read; unintimidating frame} that woman of "every age" just melt over...
I have seen woman coming up to our store, and whispered to another co-worker... "Watch how this lady reacts to A######...." And sure enough, he will say, "Hello....." and instantly, 98% of them will just get so googly, they are practically tripping over their tongues ! And after that, nothing he says will be the "wrong thing to say". They just suck up every word out of his mouth.
Then two of my female co-workers (one is an assis manager, and friend for 6 yrs) are both just absolutely gorgeous too.
Of course none of these people have ever had to be alone, nor will they ever have to be.
So these ^ are the people who try to give me advice ! And of course, they always act like, "It's easy ! All you have to do is be yourself.... be outgoing.... be confident... {yea', and just be freaking great looking too, right ?} Great looking people never get that they are treated differently than average, or below average looking people.....
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WTF ever ! Sure its easy, when people just look at you, and already decide they like you, before you have even opened your mouth !
Of course, I get the exact opposite.
To all of my friends, and to anyone who says "attitude makes ALL the difference", I'm sorry, but that is just complete BS !
Sure, it makes a little difference, sometimes.....
But I guarantee you, I could be a rude, wife-beating, alcoholic, cheating POS..... and yet if I was great looking, "I'd still have woman falling all over me, and I'd be able to take my pick".
What's funny is, as time goes on, I see that my "great looking" co-workers, have all kinds of personal / psych issues, just like I do......
Yet, because of "not much more" than looks alone, get all kinds of attention from the opposite sex, and will never have to be alone for 1 day of their freaking lives !
Let alone 18 ef'ing years !!!!!
Okay, I'm a little better now
Friends who just can't relate ?
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well,good for u .. U just started writing the problem and ended up finding a solution urself 😊
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