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Sorry to hear that. I didn't know it didn't pay you enough. That's a shame. Maybe your better finding a job with more pay. Don't they have any jobs in lorry driving what pay more money? Have you tried warehouse work? Yeah I know what you mean. It can take time to get any job. You just have to keep l...

Hi Iamlost, welcome to the forums. Everything I read just know made me feel for you. I could feel every word you said. I feel like I know what you been through. I'm so sorry what's happened in your life. When people early on say negative stuff about you they don't know it can haunt that person for e...

Hi there and welcome to the forums. It's sounds like your making friends already. That's really good. Do you know what kind of help you want here? You mentioned having someone to talk to. Is making friends another? Your never feel lonely here. I can promise you that. Everyone's friendly and helpful ...

I've just been thinking recently what I want. I don't know if it's love, care or attention but this week has been all about that. Today just realised in the depression chat room how so many people had what questions they needed to answer and what they may of needed from it but me I felt completely a...

Awww I'm sorry to hear that. I thought you liked your job as you were saying that's been the best job you had and earn more money etc. I knew it was stressing you out. Taking the time off now I'd best. Have you told them your looking for another job? Is it the job it's self or just the stress of it?...

Does sound like your being treated a bit unfairly right now and if anything goes wrong it seems to be you that is to blame. The fact is you have been trying to get along with everyone and do whats best. You have gone and learnt from your mistakes, not trying to get into arguments and do what's best ...

That's good to hear!! I'm proud that you went to doctors in the end and took that first step getting help. I know it must of not been easy. Well Done :) Yeah people assume alot of things. You can say that in retail customers always think arguing with you will result in them getting discount or knowi...

Hi there, just wanted to message back and say manager praised me first time today about starring conversations with customers and smiling. He was proud of me. I couldn't believe when he said that. Thought he was gonna say to engage again lol. I was better today working. Maybe I had bad day and next ...

That's very true. Thanks for that

Yeah I can understand that reviews can help you in your way to improving and getting support you really need to work well in the job but just feel it's a nervous time cuz in my reviews before its always been negative need to improve. Like manager said it last time to me. I am trying. I can only do m...

Hi Mike, thank you so much for replying back. No this isn't my first retail role. I worked in another retail shop for five months which was on the shop floor putting stock out. I was on different departments but that was to get to know the stock better as you said you did. I'm working on tills in th...

Yes I think over time you can forgive but if your one to forget then you will find that your relationship can work. You do sound like the sort of person also who is caring and loving. That's a good quality to have. Can you see that's what your family couldn't see? I know money is tight right now but...

I agree with what the above poster said. You should make newer friends. I can tell its stressing you out alot. I know it's easy to say but can you try and socialise with more people at your school or attend a group or something. I just think doing that will give you your confidence back. I know your...

Hi welcome to the forms. Please don't feel any of this is your fault. You have gone through a really difficult time. You need people around you and support. Have you thought about attending a group for those who been through what you had. Victim Support Group? That sort of thing. I would consider yo...

Hi there, sorry to hear what you been through. You sound like a caring and loving person. I think that's a quality you can say is good about you. Don't you think? I'm sure there are plenty more too without you realising. I know that feeling of not feeling wanted. I too think about how people are bet...