I feel so pressured

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justsomeone
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I feel so pressured

Postby justsomeone » Sat Jan 05, 2019 12:35 pm

So many things are happening in my life currently and I just feel so overwhelmed.
A bunch of exams in school, I can't find a weekend job and also if deadly afraid of job interviews because of my social anxiety but I just want to make some money. I feel like I'm wasting my time/life. I'm also trying to get fitter, gain a little muscle but I used to suffer from an eating disorder and now that my body is changing I feel so much fear and I'm so anxious all the time. I can't even sleep.

JackieJ
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Re: I feel so pressured

Postby JackieJ » Sat Jan 19, 2019 5:07 pm

I'm so sorry that you are feeling overwhelmed. It does sound like you have a lot going on, but it also sounds like you are doing some wonderful things and making wonderful changes. Bravo to you for trying to get fitter. It may be challenging to do those job interviews, but I encourage you to accept the reality that this is what you will need to do in order to secure a job. Have you considered doing mock interviews with a friend so that you can get some practice in? Take one day at a time and plan our your day, so that you are getting some things done. Be sure to leave time in your day to just be still. I pray that your examines will go well and that you will get a job that is perfect for your skills, ability, and talent. Help me understand why you feel like you are wasting your time or life. It seems like you are doing exactly what life is about... growing, changing, developing, and purpose.

Jtw
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Re: I feel so pressured

Postby Jtw » Sun Mar 03, 2019 1:02 am

I sympathise. I'm a teacher and I know first hand how stressful this time of your life can be. Exams aren't a good way of measuring your worth, your potential for future success or your understanding of the subject. They should have be done away with years ago!
But they're not, so get through them. Just remember, when you look back on them, they really won't matter half as much as they feel like they do now.
Ignore your social disorder. You're meant to feel awkward when you're young, it's a part of growing up. Face it head on and learn from it. I'm an extremely shy and introverted person, by nature. I pushed myself, now I can stand in front of 2000 people and deliver a speech without a single flush of nerves. Every time you push yourself, it gets a little easier next time.
I have a body image disorder. I can't look at pictures of myself, or even myself in a mirror. I actively believe I'm too fat and too thin at the same time. For a long time I avoided going out because I didn't think it was fair that other people should have to look at me.
I realised this was all silly, and self-destructive. It then mostly went away.
You're overwhelmed. Just take each day at a time and work on doing one thing, instead of trying to do it all. You can't, so work on what you can do. Draw up a plan, create a schedule and stick to it.
Just remember, this is all temporary. You can change every single one of those things and you will. It won't be today, or tomorrow but you will fix it.

Sadinatura
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Re: I feel so pressured

Postby Sadinatura » Mon Mar 04, 2019 6:45 pm

:| that must suck I'm sorry


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