Just joined today and I need help

[ashdod1]

I have bouts of depression ,this one seemed too long that am afraid it will last. I am 90 years old .Any help

[ashdod1]

I am 90 years old ,I have bouts of depression ,this one seemed too long ,any help

[2esAngel]

I joined tonight, desparate for common ground. Don't take slow response time as dis- interest. It's so hard not to isolate when in pain as I assume you have experienced. Glad you found your way to this site. Maybe it will help us both.

[ashdod1]

Thank you Angel, glad I found a someone to chat with . Did you had bouts before or this is your first time.

[SuZQ154]

We understand. Depression hits all ages, and especially the elderly. Staying in community is one of the best ways to fight back, so I am glad you are posting! Would you like to tell us more of why you are low?

[ashdod1]

I had my first bout of depression when my mother passed. Then when I retired.Now I have depression since my wife passed .I have my ups and downs but this one is lasting too long .I want to keep hoping ,but I keep dwelling in my despair .medication never helped me .What can I do

[ashdod1]

I forgot to tell you that my single daughter is trying hard to keep me hopeful

[SuZQ154]

You have been through so much, and your sadness is understandable. Allowing yourself to feel your sadness is healing, although painful. Pictures, journals, scrapbooks, cards, and letters of what you shared with others are great reminders of the blessings God has given us, as well as a reminder of the blessings He wants to provide for our future. Church, prayer, and reading the Bible are things I do when I need that reminder. Praying for you today!