Re: Fear of Intimacy
Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2020 4:42 am
ShadowSelf wrote:As much as I would love to let a lady past the defenses, there is a part of me that constantly reminds me of how horrible things have been when I did in the past.
Why expose your heart when she will invariably put a bayonet through it?
Sometimes there's nothing I would want more, however... I know I'm not ready yet, I just pray that someday soon I will be.
R
You will never be ready, unless you make yourself ready, by having confidence, awareness and self belief. You also have to be able to trust the person. There are a few guards you have to put down before you can enjoy intimacy and love relationships.