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by pearl
Thu Jul 12, 2018 1:31 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Final destination
Replies: 5
Views: 1271

Re: Final destination

Let me elaborate, sorry. I gave her my all, but she betrayed me. She gave my heart away. Shd tore me apart unknowingly and she saw it as for the greater good. She was always better with morals than i ever could be. That's where the understanding materializes.
by pearl
Thu Jul 12, 2018 1:28 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Final destination
Replies: 5
Views: 1271

Re: Final destination

One look at this post, and I already feel a strand of undsrstanding materialize. I know how you feel. Almost, scratch that, EVERY DAMN TIME, I look in the mirror,my first thpught is idontwannabeyouanymore. But... I reached out. I snapped. I spilled, and even though the feelings always come rushing i...
by pearl
Sat Jun 30, 2018 5:49 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Living under the roof of a narcissist
Replies: 2
Views: 868

Re: Living under the roof of a narcissist

I really can relate to you. I am currently in a similar situation.... My father.... he wont accept the fact that he has a horrible temper. The thing is, I learned about the insecurity that makes him this way. I know that because kf this, he feels s/he has to project confidence. I cant say therapy he...
by pearl
Mon Jun 25, 2018 12:34 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: betrayal...and refusing it.
Replies: 10
Views: 1550

Re: betrayal...and refusing it.

You know what my therapist told me a couple of days ago? "I don't think you're depressed" I bit my tongue because these are family counseler sessions and my mother was there. Today, all I could think about was orchestrating this whole scene where I manipulate the teacher by threating my li...
by pearl
Fri Jun 15, 2018 6:05 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: betrayal...and refusing it.
Replies: 10
Views: 1550

Re: betrayal...and refusing it.

Thanks everybody for responding :) I got a therapist, and even if it isn't as effective as a lot of people I've talked to have claimed, it actually is helping! But, here's the thing... I, sigh, literally can't stop thinking about the betrayal... back to square one, it looks like. :( Before, I used t...
by pearl
Tue May 29, 2018 11:40 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: betrayal...and refusing it.
Replies: 10
Views: 1550

Re: betrayal...and refusing it.

Well, I'm hoping somebody can tell me if therapy is affective. Everybody I've talked to ( in irl) is pro therapy, but they are all trained almost, to say that therapy is a good thing. I'm hoping somebody can tell me the pros & cons of therapy, and from experience, how effective it is. Thanks, Pe...
by pearl
Tue May 29, 2018 1:19 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: So whats your story?
Replies: 7
Views: 1535

Re: So whats your story?

When i read these stories, i feel guilt. my 'story' isn't half as bad... but, you know what, it still feels like hell. so, you know what, it's time i face some truths. lets start with, i should get some sleep.
by pearl
Mon May 28, 2018 3:12 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: betrayal...and refusing it.
Replies: 10
Views: 1550

Re: betrayal...and refusing it.

Hello Rose! Thanks for responding. I love your username too. You're right, finding someone that I trusted was hard. She's encouraging me to be open to therapy, (which my counselor has already signed me up for) and I'm not sure how effective it is. I've been doing research, but I prefer hearing about...
by pearl
Thu May 24, 2018 1:32 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: betrayal...and refusing it.
Replies: 10
Views: 1550

betrayal...and refusing it.

Okay. Let's start 'with the facts' as my therapist likes to say. I had a very trusted teacher who i told many of my deepest thoughts. She was the first person not to throw shade at my emotions as well as act with as little prejudice as possible. Honestly, I loved her, like she was a mother to me. On...

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