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by Jayni
Sun Jan 20, 2019 5:58 pm
Forum: New Member Introductions
Topic: Im helpless, but in a worse way than Eliza from Hamilton
Replies: 6
Views: 4698

Re: Im helpless, but in a worse way than Eliza from Hamilton

I don't know what country you are in but I do encourage you to seek counseling. Maybe start slowly until you feel you can trust that person. I'm very sorry to hear about the churches in your area. I hope there are still some who believe in love and grace because we are all sinners. None of us have i...
by Jayni
Fri Jan 18, 2019 9:49 pm
Forum: New Member Introductions
Topic: Im helpless, but in a worse way than Eliza from Hamilton
Replies: 6
Views: 4698

Re: Im helpless, but in a worse way than Eliza from Hamilton

Oh, hon, is there any way you can take fewer classes? What about changing your major to give you some classes you can enjoy, something in line with those daydreams? Go easy on yourself as you are only 18 and have a lot of life to live. If you can get any help can you try a church as they often have ...
by Jayni
Sun Sep 09, 2018 9:28 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Depression and Relationships
Replies: 1
Views: 3801

Re: Depression and Relationships

I think you're doing well. You realize so many things about yourself which is more than a lot of people do. You've met some goals and continue to have more to strive toward. I say you should be patient with yourself and let things take their course. There's no rush to be in a romantic relationship a...
by Jayni
Sat Apr 21, 2018 9:32 am
Forum: New Member Introductions
Topic: Hi Everyone
Replies: 4
Views: 4762

Re: Hi Everyone

Moira, you are not alone. I don't have any family either but only have my dog. Yet I take so much joy from him and making his life great. In fact I went through training with him and now he is a registered therapy dog so we can spend our time providing therapy to others at convalescent homes, school...
by Jayni
Sat Apr 21, 2018 9:22 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Could Use Some Help
Replies: 5
Views: 6007

Re: Could Use Some Help

You're doing the right thing by reaching out here. All I can say is it does get easier eventually. In fact, this life is all about you learning to love and receive love from others. You have to be vulnerable in order to do that. Are you seeing a therapist? I'd say it's pretty important to help you l...
by Jayni
Sat Nov 04, 2017 9:12 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Cant control my mind
Replies: 4
Views: 3925

Re: Cant control my mind

There is no reason to hate yourself for this. It's valid for it to take a long time to rebuild that trust. And he should be understanding of that. His going out and drinking apart from you is a valid reason for you to feel the way you do. If your relationship is the priority he would be more concern...
by Jayni
Sat Nov 04, 2017 9:01 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: so dying and afraid
Replies: 3
Views: 3278

Re: so dying and afraid

Is he seeking counseling for his depression? That's the first thing. You should support his healing but he needs to do his part. He does not have an excuse to become violent with you. Please reach out for assistance, maybe even a shelter. You need safety but also strength and support to help you nav...
by Jayni
Sat Nov 04, 2017 8:57 am
Forum: Your Story
Topic: When will I be free?
Replies: 2
Views: 2907

Re: When will I be free?

Wow, I get it, I get what you are saying. You are in pain, not just someone who needs attention. You didn't say if you had sought counseling and/or medication. There is nothing wrong with either. We are human and need each other. It helps to write, to get it all out. But you need the human touch, so...
by Jayni
Sat Sep 23, 2017 1:49 pm
Forum: Your Story
Topic: Dead inside
Replies: 6
Views: 4539

Re: Dead inside

So sorry you feel this way. You're normal, you're human, you're alive. Depressed is depressed, formal diagnosis or not. Please find people you can talk to. The military has assistance or find a church near you or support group. Seeing a therapist could really help and maybe meds could help, too. Wha...

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